Yeah, and the truth is, we did, and we didnāt treat our server poorly with the tip or anything.
My main gripe was being so rushed. When we first ordered our appetizer, she said, āIf you know what you want for your main meal, you can order now and Iāll hold off putting it in until I see youāre nearly finished with your starter.ā - common practice, no problem.
What happened next? 10 minutes after the appetizer came out, we were barely half through it, and out came the soup! On top of that, she sat the bowls on the table and said, āLet me just scoot everything over so it fits,ā and pushed the plates we were actively eating from off to the side!
When it came time for dessert, our server had her assistant clear some dishes away, and we were still having our wine (we donāt drink so much while weāre eating, we tend to leave the lionās share until after weāve eaten).
She asked if we wanted dessert, and we said we did, and we ordered, but MrsT pointedly said, āWeād like to enjoy the rest of our wine first, though, please, so take your time.ā - a polite way of saying, āStop rushing us, please!ā
Three minutes laterā¦out comes our coffees and the cheesecake, and we each had nearly a half-glass of wine left!