Berties
Guru
Not genetic ,just a habit passed down by parents or family of poor eating habits and lack of exercise,not all cases but I know of many cases like this ,dad sits around so does the son
Until the last few years, I was the only one in my family home who was not overweight, sorry more accurately obese. All my life I have known every family member to be obese except for my Grannie. The result was that I didn't want to be them. I was anorexic as a teenager (typical private girls school issues didn't help) and have spent all my life watching my weight. I have a very negative relationship with the scales and now only use them when I am on a 'diet' which is quite rare. (The current one is simply as a result of being bedbound and then housebound for over 18 months and 12 months of my OH cooking with a little less care to the 'use half the oil the recipe states please' approach to his cooking. He would also cook plenty of treats for me because my life was so very limited for 12 months and I had gone from being exceptionally active (cycling 10,000 miles in 10 month prior to my back going and leaving me partially paralysed and bedbound) to absolutely nothing - I could not even get down the stairs without help for 15 months.) I have to be careful not to revert to my teenage years because of the effect of seeing all my family members (with the exception of one of my brothers now) being very obese or obese. It's hard but I'm not certain that mental/physical health problems that cause obesity are genetic. The issue with my back was a birth defect, nothing more. My severe asthma is the only one in the family. Curiously my mother never really showed any interest in learning to cook from her mother, my grannie, whereas I did learn to cook from my grannie (I lived with her for a while). I suspect that not learning to cook is probably a bigger cause of the obesity issues. My sister certainly never learnt to cook and well, she is large and always has been all the way through school. She was never taught to restrict what she ate, be careful with what she ate, nutrition or anything like that. It shows. She won't even buy potatoes with soil on them, she buys them in plastic bags ready cut up and ready to go straight into the microwave. It is the same with any veg and meat.I used to have a negative relationship with food, because of growing up watching my Moms negative relationship with food, but I didn't realize til I waz an adult, that there waz a problem