@morning glory - at heart, I'm a loner. I don't particularly like socializing, and I've got a whole universe of imagination going on in my head at any given time, so I'm always my own best company.
My wife is going out of town for a week in October, and I could go with her if I chose to, but instead, I took the time off, but I'm staying home. Five days of uninterrupted me time...I'm positively giddy at the prospect!
@Karen W - I don't know, I usually don't look at male/female things, but I will say that my wife is like you. She can't bear to do anything alone.
She says she always feels like people are looking at her when she's out by herself, thinking, "That poor woman is all alone, how sad," and that's because that's what she says when she sees people out alone!
I think some of it is the way she was raised. Her family - if they're not all piled on top of one another every time they're together, then they fee like something's amiss.
I was raised in a much larger family, so personal time was necessary, because we
were piled atop one another, literally and figuratively, and my family is also much, much more reserved than hers.