To the topic of eating utensils. I learned how to use chop sticks and was somewhat proficient. in '04 I was in a near fatal accident. Both bones in my right, dominate arm, were broken and had to be repaired with titanium plates and screws. Serious nerve damage. It is now my stupid hand. i can not use chop sticks.
In '93 I spent 3 weeks in London. I had dinner with locals and was asked why I cut my meat with knife in right hand, fork in left hand then transferred fork to right hand to eat. HMMMM. Because Emily Post said that was the proper way to dine. FREEDOM!! Who cares? I don't. I cut my meat with the knife in my right hand and eat my meat with a fork in my left hand. Thank you friends across the pond for making me see how ridiculous the so called PROPER way to eat was.
I have an issue with spaghetti. I am guilty on two points. I use a fork and a spoon to twirl log noodles. My big naughty - when I make spaghetti or other long noodles at home I break them in half.
Sorry to all of the pasta perfectionist.