Try planning a surprise party for your daughter's 10th birthday. The day before she falls down and busts her tongue wide open. Yes, mom went ahead with the party but the birthday girl didn't get a cupcake.Me too. I once had a table booked for my birthday - but managed to fall over and break my pelvis a few weeks before! Very disappointing. I booked 5 months ahead for a lunchtime/afternoon.
Couldn't talk well, couldn't eat but went to school anyway.