The extended conversation between
TastyReuben and
JASOH1 inspired me to start this thread. .For years I over packed. Overnight trip - pack for a week. Go for a week - pack for a month.
I can pack for an extended trip in a carry on bag and my C-Pap.
I have discovered the joy of packing cubes, I can pack two or three days of outfits in each cube including underwear. TR as obsessive as you are you should investigate packing cubes. So easy. Open a cube, pull out everything you need for that day - underwear, socks/hose, top, bottom. Get dressed and go.
We stay in hotels so a blow dryer is not necessary. I have lots of 3 oz. travel bottles so there is no need for large containers of lotion, shampoo or conditioner.
We both use an electric tooth brush. When traveling we only need one base. The brush heads can be switched out as needed. If you do not want to spend the money on hotel laundry service most hotels in the U.S. have a guest laundry. Bring a book and a glass (bottle) of wine and wash a load of clothes. Much better than over packing.
In recent years most of our travel has been in conjuration with G's business - a conference or trade show where the company will pay for a companion traveler. G attends the conference and I sight see. Easy to pack. In addition to casual clothes I need a couple of dressy casual outfits for business dinners or functions. 1 skirt or a pair of slacks, two tops and a light jacket or pashmina. A pair of pumps. I like jewelry and I am tempted to pack lots but limit myself to two sets that can be tucked into a jewelry roll. If I need to I can carry that in my purse. About purses - at home I use a small cross body purse. When I travel i carry a larger purse with a tooth brush and an extra pair of underwear. We usually drive and rarely fly. I have had luggage lost once on a flight.
OK - I have rambled long enough.
How do you pack?
As much as is practically possible, I prefer to travel by car. Understand it is not always practical.
BUT between space limits, I am 6 foot one with bad knees and ankles and 1) being behind some inconsiderate blankety-blank who thinks it is his gawd-given right to push his seat all the way back into my knees, or 2) having to sit in the space right behind the bulkhead where ankles cannot stretch out, and 3) not being able to put my worst leg out into the aisle very often, and 4) not being able to stop my chosen vehicle WHEN I want to stretch and walk around - I seriously prefer to drive to any vacation locale as often as practical! - Obviously this does not help if I choose to travel to another continent! Or if I have to visit a family member on emergency.
My last plane flight was to Chicago November 2014 when my father passed away. I drove from Connecticut to Florida and back again when I went to visit my brother and his children in 2016. I had planned to do this again this past spring, but... COVID.
I wish I had the packing skills of my mother. She was the queen of suitcase packing. Any of the rest of the family could pack a suitcase to full, and she'd come along and re-pack for all of us and we had twice as much in each of our individual suitcases than we'd started with.
Air flights back when I was working, to go to conferences: I'd pack a couple nice outfits but otherwise just casual. Unfortunately my feet have been so bad for years I cannot EVER wear pumps or anything that looks feminine. Other people just have to deal with the non-aesthetics of my footwear. On top of this, it is size 10.5 - 11 (US MEN's scale) footwear. I refuse to cripple myself to make someone else happy. If it is a short trip, it is just the pair I am wearing.
Hair dryers - I haven't used one since I was about 30. Air dry for me is the way to go. Even at a business conference. I remember buying a business suit for our conference in New Orleans in June early 1990s. Nearly all the other presenters were in shorts! (This was not true at other locales we went to...) I regret having to donate that suit when I moved up here a couple years ago - it was lovely - but I know I'll never fit in it again. I plan airline travel for ONE check-in suitcase, and ONE carry on bag, in which I manhandle my purse - although I did need my laptop in an additional bag when I also had to work while on a trip. I recall one late 90s trip to my brother's in Florida where I didn't have time to drive - that I arrived with ONE carry on bag alone (and my camera around my neck. Absolutely nothing else but wearing a lightweight coat - hot there, but I was grateful to have that on me when I returned to Connecticut and had to chisel my car out of the ice bank in the parking lot.
I use hotel shampoo and conditioners - and take leftovers home with me. No matter how I travel. If I am staying at a relative's or a friend's place, I bring something small to use - both helps in packing and on airplanes nowadays.
I have never used an electric toothbrush in my life. The regular ones pack more compactly anyway.
I will have a camera out if it is for scenic travel. I prefer camera photos to phone photos but the phone ones have definitely improved that now I'd be fine using just that in some cases. I do tend to try to travel for fun in less-touristy regions more or less, so being marked as a tourist is less of a concern. I judge it by where I am.
Always travel with a book and a Kindle. Widens options. I do carry a larger purse when travelling - extra set of undergarments and a top, plus that Kindle, paperback, and camera equipment. I also travel with clothing (not the jacket) that has POCKETS, preferably four, so I can scatter my credit cards, ID, keys, and cash around - the not keeping all one's eggs in one basket theory. I almost always dress way DOWN when going into New York City (I take a train down from Connecticut/just over the border into New York state). No camera, but just going to meet friends there and do stuff. I did dress up (rather nicely) when I went down to a fancy restaurant for my 60th birthday and met friends there who treated me... I still only had a Dumb Phone then, and I'd been to NYC often enough I didn't care about photographs.
If I will be several days on the road by car, I always bring a cooler, at least for lunches and sometimes for breakfasts. In winter I leave the stuff in the car; in warmer times I stay at places with fridges in the motel rooms. I will find a place (ahead of time) for a decent dinner.
TSA at airports: Back when I had to fly out of Hartford Connecticut to visit Dad... I usually had the earliest flights. They were awesome employees! With a sense of humor too. Any other TSA locales that I happened to see between 2001 and 2014 - eh. But I can understand their pressure in larger airports, and later in the day.