So basically those people are afraid of their own shadowgreat observation Tasty, I didn't think of that yet.
My numbers are ( and have always been) described as ' perfect' ( just like your miss T) leading to surprised doctors testing again and then declaring it miracoulous because I too am considered obese. But again just like Miss T, apparently I don't look obese, just overweight.
And my health issues aside from the ED are not weight related, I don't have metabolic syndrome , again just like miss T. We fall under the ' paradox of the healthy obese" ( this is the title of a scientific study on that you can find on google) .
But of course, most people who are overweight have health issues. But, I ask, what was there first. Health issues or the weight? More often than not, the weight comes after the first health issues. So often it goes hand in hand with health issues, and isnt always caused by sheer indulgence.
Miss T sounds very similar to me.
My sister, and educated and experienced Registered Nurse in a good hospital, is severely obese. I am seven inches taller than her, but she is 65 pounds heavier. She takes medicine for type 2 diabetes, but is no on insulin -- yet. She knows she could stop taking that medicine if she lost fifty pounds. My mom nags here, which just makes my sister eat more. Her eating disorder has "emotional" written all over it.
Related to Covid-19, my sister will be in the first wave of people to receive the vaccine, because she is a first responder. That can't happen too soon, because if she were to catch Covid, her excessive weight would make her high risk. She has breathing issues now, because of her weight.
CD