That is pretty much all I did. I have had to get hubby to weigh out breakfast cereal, the yoghurt and fruit and adjust to eating a portion. I'm down on that now to 10g less than a portion.
That's actually something I never eat a full portion of, not because of some kind of virtue but because I apparently desire less of it than most people. When I weighed out the portion WW describes it was double the amount I normally take. That's not some kind of virtue, I just don't like lots of cereal. So I can imagine that was something you could cut back on.
One thing I have noticed is that since I have lost the weight I have (around 55lb) doctors take me much more seriously with pain management, my arthritis, my asthma and generally are more helpful.
I am sorry, but that doesn't cheer me up at all. I mean I am absolutely glad you're getting better help
, but it shouldn't be this way. I know it's real, I've encountered a lot of weight stigma myself. But I find this a serious flaw in a doctor, because they should know people can't control everything in their life. Weight loss might be a calories in vs out issue, there are many more factors at play than pure dietary control. As someone with a serious eating disorder, I find this behaviour appaling. Thankfully, I have supportive and understanding doctors who don't act this way.
It sounds like things are starting to look up for you and perhaps you'll get some more help. Fingers crossed for you.
Well, yes and no. I have a dangerous chronic clotting disorder , and currently there are no meds that prevent clotting. Blood thinners should help to prevent embolisms, but there's no guarantee it will never happen because meds might not work like the ones I was on turned out to not work. With what I had, most people die the first time and I've survived four. Of course the question, is there going to be a last time soon? Does enter my head. So that means I am going to try my utmost to prevent that.
I am an optimistic person, and I am dealing with this by not focussing on any fears. 10 years of meditation and therapy has taught me how to do that, and most people IRL are surprised by my positive attitude. I certainly won't spoil the time I have by moping around, because what use does it have and I have to live with the risk that this happens again. And the good news is, my pain was largely caused by the dvt's itself so it's becoming less as we speak.
But it is a tough pill to swallow to hear this news regardless.
If I come across slightly more negative here, it's only because here's my safe space to vent a little. In real life I don't want everyone to act concerned all the time, so I don't show negativity. It doesn't help me move on.