rascal
Forum GOD!
It is only as I get older that I link together memories from my early life back in the very late 60s and early 70s. I was born into a nice part of Newcstle called Jesmond. Next door to us lived a middle aged woman on her own. My earliest memories involve her taking care of me and my little brother around 70-71, her babysitting us whilst my mum went shopping, or my parents went to the pub. I used to spend ages plunking away on Mrs Mac's piano, and looking back she had infinite patience with me. It was only years later when reminicing about my earliest memories with my mother that I found out that her husband was a merchant seaman whose ship was sunk in the Atlantic, and her only child was a fighter pilot who lost. The reason why she was alone was that the war took her husband and son, but for the couple of years I was aware of her she was the best auntie I had.
We moved away and by the time I was able to comprehend her loss and the love she showed me it was far too late.
Similar thing here, my dad left home when I was 3 never to be seen again. Mum raised us 3 boys and the only discipline I got was my granddad who with nana spent Sunday's with us. I was a pretty good kid until my teens. A good friend of mines dad took me under his wing, taking me and his family away boating or visiting places. He was a self employed sparky who I looked up to. I looked up to him and later in life I too started a business and prospered. I ran into his son, my friend at a school reunion. Gary told me his dad was still alive. He lives about 5 hrs away but I rung him about 10 years ago and thanked him for being a good influence on my life. He truely had a huge effect on my life.
Russ