At a fancy company dinner my mom once stuffed her plate with some funky shaped napkins...she thought they were cheesesDinner this evening was a bbq, plenty of other tasty dishes were available. At 1 point a waiter put a finger bowl on our table so I used it, he also put 1 on the table next to us, a retired couple, she tried to drink it...the waiter had to stop her and mimic finger dipping