From your past posts, it seems like it doesn't matter what you each choose to order, MrsT chooses what you each EAT.
CD
It’s a system that’s worked itself out. In a lot of ways (apart from seafood), we have similar tastes in general, but not on any given day.
We each pick something, and it’s usually things we can both eat, then she tries them both and:
1. If she likes them both, we share
2. If she likes hers but not mine, she keeps hers
3. If she likes mine but not hers, she takes mine*
Even though I’m picky about sorting things, eating items in a certain order, things like that, I’m usually not too picky about what I’m eating, meaning if she orders chicken and I order beef, I’ll gladly eat either one, where she always has to be “in the mood” for something, so even though she likes burgers in general, if she’s not “in the mood” for a burger, she won’t eat one. I’m not like that.
*The caveat is if she orders something I don’t like, I tell her in advance that she’s stuck with it if she doesn’t like it.