Oh, build your own Jacket Potato Bar!
Kalua Pork can be made a head, warmed for service, super simple. Pot of steamed Rice, some
Mac Salad and a green one for laughs and giggles. Make it a theme night - luau in Somerset! Don't forget the plastic leis, Mai Tais, Blue Hawaiis, etc.
Breakfast: make ahead casseroles, serve yourself bar with accompaniments; Croissant Breakfast Sammies made ahead, wrapped in tin foil, popped into the oven to warm and Bob's your uncle; Frittatas can be do ahead as well... recruit helpers too, eh?
Lunch: build your own sammie/salad/and soup bar - all can be done ahead
And
medtran49 beat me to it, build your own Taco Bar or Taco Bowl if you like.
Don't forget dessert:
S'Mores Bar using those little butane burners that we can get at the Dollar Stores
Hot Cocoa Bar, MMM!
Seems like I'm leaning towards DIY/serve yourself/make ahead ideas...
I think that I'd be renting some restaurant equipment, ie, warming trays, large folding tables for buffet-style service, cutlery, dishes, etc - that is unless you have all of these things ...
Sounds like a lot of fun!
The Jacket potato bar would work so long as I serve my parents up for them
My dad's old school, there are foods he hasn't tried (and won't) and boy will he make a fuss if the foods something from his outside his normal orbit!
So tacos are sadly a no, fortunately curry's and casseroles (stews) are a yes, it's a strange mix of 1950's attitudes of anything new being "foreign muck" and yet some likes that you just wouldn't expect from that era.
There'll be other older Brit's (and probably Americans) on here who will know what I'm talking about with the stick in the mud generation of meat and two veg.
Personally I'd much rather have your interpretation without limitations!
Once a long time ago I did a build a burger lunch, made three different types of burgers and lots of different toppings, a lot of time went into it all.
I made sure everything was in reach on the table (there is an expectation of being served, not having to move about or do anything yourself
), all they had to do was pick which burger patty they fancied and I cooked it for them.
Oh the complaints. My mothers parting shot on leaving was "I understand that seemed like a nice idea but let's not do anything like that again"
Hmph!
Needless to say as the years carried on I've cooked less and less for them until the last couple of years and some serious rudeness when I stopped completely.
So it's tricky. I really want everyone to have a nice time (this is after all a farewell to the mother we knew) and I would normally go down the "tough, like it or lump it" route but just this time I don't want my efforts or the atmos ruined by complaining! I need a good last supper
We're definitely on the same wavelength when it comes to large style cooking
What you're saying is exactly the sort of fun I'd plan!
I did look into hiring tables but it was cheaper to buy them!
The rest of it, cutlery, crockery, warming plates, hostess trolley etc etc I have.
Some of it was quite dusty, it's been a while!!
What are breakfast sammies?
I'm definitely doing the croissant, pain aux raisin etc style breakfasts
As for help, my youngest son is a dream on that front, he's fast, strong and we've worked in the kitchen together many many times so we know how to get on together when the pace picks up, plus his knife skills are pretty good