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Had a lovely peaceful boardgame day with my stepsons. It was a nice Christmas all in all!
<shakes head in dismay>
The old pillow case looked like this
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The new one is smaller on the your side.
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In this household, 'my side' is actually SNSSO's side and 'your side' is hubby's side.So 'My side' is your side?
In my house, no labels are necessary - it’s more like, “That’s my (MrsT’s) side, and that’s my side, too. All the sides are mine. And the blankets. And the remote control for the TV.”In this household, 'my side' is actually SNSSO's side and 'your side' is hubby's side.
I've found the best approach with the TV remote is to insist he has it. After 30 years of that approach, it is now a case of him complainingly saying "you can use the remote you know".In my house, no labels are necessary - it’s more like, “That’s my (MrsT’s) side, and that’s my side, too. All the sides are mine. And the blankets. And the remote control for the TV.”
I've found the best approach with the TV remote is to insist he has it. After 30 years of that approach, it is now a case of him complainingly saying "you can use the remote you know".
I prefer to allow him to keep his own quilt because it's too warm for me. I need something much cooler since hitting that stage in life, so I kick all the covers over to his side of the bed in the night and I don't like his pillow. It has a distinctive smell to it and my pillow is a special one to deal with my neck issues. He doesn't like it because he can't sleep on his front or back using it. It's designed only for sleeping on your side and is adjusted to you're shoulder to neck height, so useless for him. But the pillow cases are a historic thing between us when we had a much smaller bed and shared it more than we do know... He was really upset when his pillow case finally gave up (curiously my side is still fine, but we have this issue with him, pillow cases, sheets and quilt covers. I'm guessing it's more to do with him sleeping in his birthday suit and me always wearing something despite me insisting bedding is changed every week. )
As for hot and cold, my ex wife had feet that were like clumps of ice, and she would sometimes put them on my legs to thaw out. Talk about a bad way to wake up.
With MrsT, it’s the small of my back. That’s where she plants them.and she would sometimes put them on my legs to thaw out.
We just received one as well. I was about to cut them out of our lives completely, but the postmark revealed they’d sent it before Christmas, so they’re not dead me…yet.We have just received 2 Christmas cards, bit late due to strikes but hey ho.
I can go all the way back to...1990 when I first got a lecture on using "Xmas!" Didn't stick then, and it doesn't stick now (though I rarely use that abbreviation). I will, however, say "Happy Holidays," or "Have a good holiday," just as much as I'll say, "Have a good Christmas."I'm sure TastyR has seen his fair share of this tirade where he lives.
Whenever someone, I don't care who it is or where or what the situation, says to me "Happy Holidays", I respond with Merry Christmas. Period.