Yes, usually, for two reasons - first, once my tastebuds are told they’re getting something, they begin to anticipate that thing and don’t like surprise changes.
Second, once a decision is made, I don’t like it when people backtrack and start the process over again. That’s MrsT’s family all over. They can discuss as a family where to eat for three hours, pick a place, everyone agrees, and when it’s time to leave, someone will say, “So we’re sure about the chop house, riiiiight?” - and then it starts all over again.
Now, mind you, the changes still happen - Friday I was supposed to cook smoked sausage, potatoes, and cabbage, but at literally 5PM, MrsT said she wanted Mexican, so sausage got pushed back to Saturday, which we had earlier decided we’d be eating at a restaurant Saturday, but then, after she met with her clients yesterday and drove over to the bar and grille where I was passing the time drinking, she said, “Ohhhh, this looks nice, let’s just eat here,” so Friday’s sausage that had been pushed back to Saturday got pushed back again to today, which pushed back plans for St. Pat’s meal tonight to tomorrow, so I’ve been low-key gripey about everything for nearly three days now.