I remember reading one of those "Mars/Venus" type articles (you know, "men are from Mars, women are from Venus"), and it said that men overwhelmingly focus on physical characteristics when forming opinions of sex appeal (pretty face, butt, boobs, whatever), but that women focused more on less...tangible?...aspects, and one commonality that crept up over and over was that women found their partners the most appealing when they were doing things like washing the dishes or fixing a wobbly table. Cooking a meal? That was just about as sexy as it got - that hetted the women up like nothing else!That is so weird.
I must have a major focus on personality and intelligence. I find my husband the most sexy when he has done something kind and thoughtful or clever. I also think Biden is an appealing older gentleman. There is an even-keeled presence about him i find attractive.
Gotta love pop psychology!