We (meaning me) used to hand wash most things. MrsT has this opinion that dishwashers are expensive to run, waste water, damage dishes, and don’t work as well as handwashing. Easy opinion to have when you wash zero dishes…
For the longest time, all we put in the dishwasher were plates, bowls, mugs, and flatware, but a few years ago, I rebelled, and now pots and pans go in there, plastic stuff on the top shelf, other utensils…if it says it’s dishwasher-safe and I can get it to fit, in it goes.
We used to run the dishwasher every four days, and now it’s every two, with all the extra stuff.