I don’t think one had much to do with the other.
The two main things we liked about SA were the cost of living (very cheap) and the food (very good, frequently very cheap).
Also, Texas is by far the cleanest place I’ve ever lived, and with the best-maintained roads I’ve ever seen.
The downside was the attitude, which was split into two parts:
1. The ass-smacking-little-lady-why-don’t-you-fix-us-men-a-cup-of-coffee good ol’ boy persona that we encountered way too often
2. The I-think-we-can-all-agree-that-Texas-is-better-in-every-way-to-everywhere-else-even-heaven attitude
Those both got kind of tiring after the first couple of days. The weather was also horrible, at least for me - either scalding hot or drenching, flooding rain…and still hot. Felt like god was pouring boiling water on everything.
We did. We got around a lot the 18 months we were there. Castroville, San Marcos (they had a World Football League team) Kerrville, South Padre Island, Galveston, Brownsville and all around SA/Bexar County, and Shiner, Fiesta Texas theme park (does that still exist?).
Lots of good food, from the no-name Mexican place around the corner from our apartment, to what’s still one of my favorite memories, The Old San Francisco. It was themed like a raucous 1890’s saloon, with a comely young miss swinging back and forth on a big swing over the bar (“The Girl on the Big Velvet Swing!” - something like that), but besides having excellent food (including giant wheels of cheese on each table - probably wouldn’t be allowed today), I liked the fact that all the waitresses were dressed sort of risqué like, like Miss Kitty from Gunsmoke, but if there was any one of them under 65yo, I never saw her. For some reason, I loved that.
They’d stir your baked potato for you with a little tiny spoon. The potatoes were massive, and you could get any combination of the standard (US) stuff, like chives, bacon, sour cream, butter, and cheese, and whatever you ordered, she’d roll out the potato cart, dress it right there, and then produce a little baby spoon and stir the potato flesh, until it was all homogenized, and (don’t judge me) the whole time, her finely aged cleavage would be moving every which way. I can still picture every single waitress we had, and that was 1990-1992.
Lots of good German/Czech food, so we were always happy with that. I think we ate out more living there than anywhere else, even the UK.
MrsT was the director of fund-raising for the South Texas chapter of the MS society, and one of her big fundraisers was The UGLY bartender contest, UGLY meaning Understanding Generous Lovable You. Bartenders all around the area would solicit extra tips and donations from patrons, which counted as “votes,” and whomever won, they got some pretty good prizes.
Well, SA being a military town, there were a lot of gentlemen’s clubs (aka strip clubs) around, and the performers would hold fundraisers for their bartenders by hosting topless car washes around the back of the clubs. MrsT would always encourage me to contribute to whatever bar we happened to be frequenting for work stuff, and she had to bite her tongue over me going and getting my truck washed at all these different clubs!
That’s another thing I miss - every gas station included a free car wash (well, more like a car rinse) with at least $8 in gas, so I never paid for a car wash in my life (except during the UGLY bartender fundraiser).
…and back to brown sugar - I do have one more planned, for tomorrow. I already have the ingredients.