My happy thought is having spent last weekend with Stepson, DIL and GD. Minimal profanity, no major arguments, only a little bit of bullying. Overall a good weekend. I was able to visit with DIL while the guys and GD were out on the boat. We will never be friends but I think we were able to establish a better relationship. DIL is the queen of picky eaters. She actually expressed interest in my cooking. She told me that she and stepson have been trying new dishes and cooking techniques. Yeah! GD will be 18 and graduate from high school in May. I know they are planning a party. I sent a text to DIL offering to help with food prep ONLY if it was OK with her. I have not heard back from her. Does not really matter. That is a lie. It does matter. I would so love to honor GD with good party food. Not my decision. It pains me but Step Mom In law knows to keep her mouth shut to maintain good relationships.