Wow, that's a long time. I just got my booster Wednesday. Mine is still sore but it's only been a couple of days. I didn't have any other side effects, thankfully.
So, my youngest stepdaughter (the only one of the kids who had the good sense to get vaccinated) and her fiancé invited my husband and I, plus the in-laws, to Christmas dinner, just the six of us, all vaccinated. She asked us about a month ago. I was asking her via text this morning what I could bring, telling her that I could bake some fresh bread or rolls and have the stuff to make pecan pie if she wants me to bring that. She said yes to both, and then said she was also baking a cake for her brother's birthday (the 27th) and that she had invited him to Christmas dinner. I stated that I didn't know he had gotten vaccinated, and she said she didn't think he had. I told her to find out because I won't be coming if so. And her grandmother has a lung condition and has been on antibiotics for several years to keep it at bay but it's incurable, and if she gets covid-19 (she is in her late 70s) it will most likely kill her. And my stepson works in a place where he comes into contact with 100s of people daily, even though he wears a mask. I don't know what my stepdaughter was thinking, she should have invited him over on his birthday, just him, if she isn't afraid of covid-19. I am sure she was just trying to make him feel included since he lives alone (in a separate wing of our house that is blocked off from our side) and doesn't have a partner or any friends, really (he's very much a loner). We don't have him over because he won't get vaccinated. And I thought the reason she didn't invite her older sister and husband was because they weren't vaccinated? I just don't know about people sometimes. I can't just say, "Oh, well we declined the big family party with all of the cousins up at the Italian American club because some of the family isn't vaccinated, and we don't eat at restaurants or shop in stores in person because people don't wear masks and may not be vaccinated, and we won't go visit the oldest daughter because she and her husband haven't been vaccinated, but we will make an exception for your unvaccinated brother since it's Christmas and his birthday is coming up?" How is being careful for nearly 2 years and then risking getting covid-19 from a family member during the holidays reasonable at all?